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SELFDEVELOPMENT.Biz JOURNAL
Number  41

  1. Inspirational Quotes
  2. As Our Dogs Think We Are by Joe Mazzella
  3. Find of the week
  4. Wild Trivia
  5. Metaphor
  6. Life reviews are OK by Ken Warren
  7. Jokes
  8. Motivational
  9. On a personal note

 


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1. Inspirational Quotes

 

"Being Kind is more important than being right"

 

"The best way to have a good idea is to have lots of ideas." Linus Pauling

 

"The best thing about the future is that it only comes one day at a time."

 

*Abraham Lincoln {1809-1865, 16th US President}

 

Life is easy; it’s the people who make it difficult!

 

"A great burden was lifted from my shoulders the day I realized that no one owes me anything." ~ Harry Browne {Financial Consultant & Libertarian Activist}

 

"You can stand tall without standing on someone. You can Be a victor without having victims." ~ Harriet Woods, American Politician

 

"In early childhood you may lay the foundation of poverty or riches, industry or idleness, good or evil, by the habits to which you train your children. Teach them right habits then, and their future life is safe."

 

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Aussi Christmas Carol   - Thanks Lyn Macintosh

Dashing through the bush, In a rusty Holden ute,

Kicking up the dust, Esky in the boot,

Kelpie by my side, Singing Christmas songs,

Its summer time and I am in my singlet, shorts & thongs

 

Oh! Jingle Bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way

Christmas in Australia on a scorching summer’s day Hey!

Jingle bells, jingle bells, Christmas time is beaut!

Oh what fun it is ride in a rusty Holden Ute.

 

Engine's getting hot we dodge the kangaroos,

The swaggie climbs aboard, he is welcome too.

All the family's there, sitting by the pool

Christmas Day the Aussie way by the barbecue.

 

Oh! Jingle Bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way

Christmas in Australia on a scorching summer’s day Hey!

Jingle bells, jingle bells, Christmas time is beaut!

Oh what fun it is ride in a rusty Holden Ute.

 

Come the afternoon Grandpa has his doze

The kids and Uncle Bruce are swimming in their clothes.

The time comes round to go; we take the family snap,

Pack the car and all shoot through, before the washing up.

 

Oh! Jingle Bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way

Christmas in Australia on a scorching summer’s day Hey!

Jingle bells, jingle bells, Christmas time is beaut!

Oh what fun it is ride in a rusty Holden Ute.

 

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2.    AS OUR DOGS THINK WE ARE

  By Joseph J. Mazzella

  

     I read a saying recently that really seemed to be true for me.  It went: “Someday I hope to be as good a person as my dog thinks I am.”  When after reading it I looked down at those wonderful, furry, four-legged angels curled up at my feet and saw the love in their eyes when they looked at me I knew that I wanted to be the loving, kind, and joyous person that they saw.

 

     My dogs always seem to bring out the best in me.  Their unconditional love always warms my heart and brings the goodness out of my soul.  They never seem to mind when I am walking them if I stop to watch the sunrise, gaze at the evening stars, or look at the beautiful autumn leaves. They are always eager to join in with me when I sing or jump around with me when I dance. They will play fetch or tug-of-war with boundless energy and enthusiasm and they never seem to mind when my arm gets too tired to go on.  They are always there to lick my hand and put their head on my knee when I am feeling down and they are always there to jump on my lap and lick my face when I am full of happiness.  They are there to greet me in joy and love every time I come home and will forgive me any wrong for a pat on the head and a gentle tone of voice.  They listen to me, love me, and think I already am the person I strive to be.

 

     I think there is a reason the word “dog” is God spelled backwards.  God loves us unconditionally just as our dogs do.  God offers us His love freely just like our furry angels do.

 

God sees the best in us just as our puppies do.  Maybe God created dogs so that we could see through their eyes the person we were meant to be.  All I know is that I may never be as loving, giving, joyous, kind, and good as my dogs think I am, but I will always try moment by moment to live up to their vision of me.  May we all one day be as good as our dogs think we are.

 

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3.      Find Of The Week  

Thanks Elizabeth Bullock

 

Create Your Future with the Nine I's

 

by John Robson and Patrice Steen

 

Learn the nine I’s of manifestation. Note that almost all of these tools are "IN" words or "inwards" tools. Bringing your dreams to life is an inside job. When we work with the intangible, invisible forces of our soul, we work with cause instead of effects. The nine I’s are:

 

1. Introspection: seek silence, solitude and serenity

 

2. Intention: know how to ask

 

3. Insights: develop your higher mind

 

4. Imagination: re-image your life and potentials

 

5. Inspiration: pursue your purpose

 

6. Integrity: live your values and principles

 

7. Intuition: develop discrimination, cultivate creativity

 

8. In service Initiatives: help others

 

9. Interdependent Interactions: share vision with others

 

 

About the Authors

John Robson and Patrice Steen offer tools and paths for meaningful growth at their excellent website. Surf over and check out their online courses, daily email coaching and FREE newsletter for personal fulfillment at:http://chetday.com/cgi-bin/pl.cgi?ha

 

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Cafe Yoga - 12 animated stretches that would seem to help you
avoid the risk of RSI and stress and the URL

http://www.stressednot.com/cafeyogademo.htm

 

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This gives a cup of coffee a whole new meaning!  

Click on

http://www.castlemountains.net/flashmar/A_Cup_Of_Joy.swf

A_Cup_Of_Joy

 

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3. Wild Trivia 

 

At 211 degrees, water is hot.

 

At 212 degrees, it boils.

 

And with boiling water, comes steam.

 

And with steam, you can power a train.

 

One degree. Applying one extra degree of temperature to water means the difference between something that is simply very hot and something that generates enough force to power a machine - a beautifully uncomplicated metaphor that ideally should feed our every endeavour - consistently pushing us to make the extra effort in every task and action we undertake.

 

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Interesting abbreviations that are used in emails and sms messages ~

 

 


ASAP - As Soon As Possible

BTW - By the Way

BBN - By Bye Now

BRB - Be Right Back

L8R - Later

L8R G8R - Later 'Gator

BF - Boy friend

GF - Girl Friend

OL - Ol' Lady (wife)

OM - Ol' Man (husband)

KOTC - Kiss on the Cheek

KOTL - Kiss on the Lips

B4N - Bye for now 

BBL - Be Back Later

AFK - Away >From Keyboard

BEG - Big Evil Grin

BWL - Bursting With Laughter

C&G - Chuckle and Grin

CSG - Chuckle, Snicker, Grin

AFIK - As Far As I Know

JTLYK - Just To Let You Know

KIT - Keep In Touch

CID - Crying In Disgrace

CNP - Continued on Next Page

CP - Chat Post

CUL - See you later

CYA - See Ya

CYAL8R - See Ya Later

DLTBBB - Don't Let the Bed Bugs Bite

FYI - For Your Information

GFN - Gone For Now

GHM - God Help Me

GHY - God Help You

GSM - God Save Me

GMBO - Giggling My Butt Off

GMTA - Great Minds Think Alike

GTSY - Glad to See You

H & Ks - Hugs and Kisses

HABU - Have A Better 'Un

HAGN - Have A Good Night

HAGU - Have A Good 'Un

HHIS - Hanging Head in Shame

IC - I See

IMO - In My Opinion

IMHO    -    In my humble opinion 

IRL - In Real Life

IWALY - I Will Always Love You

JMO - Just My Opinion

JMHO - Just my humble opinion

LHM - Lord Help Me

LHY - Lord Help You

LHU - Lord Help Us

LMHO - Laughing My Head Off 

LOL - Laughing out loud

LTNS - Long Time No See

LTM - Laughing To Myself

LYWAMH - Love You with All My Heart

LY - Love You/Love Ya

OIC - Oh I see

OTTOMH - Off the Top of My Head

PM - Private Message

POAHF - Put On a Happy Face

PTB - Powers That Be

QT - Cutie/Q-Tip

ROTFL - Rolling On the Floor Laughing

ROTFWL - Rolling on the floor with laughter 

SFETE - Smiling From Ear To Ear

SO - Significant Other

SWAK - Sealed With a Kiss

SWALK - Sealed With a Loving Kiss

SWL - Screaming With Laughter

SYS - See You Soon

TA - Thanks/Thanks Again

TGIF - Thank goodness it's Friday 

TIA   - Thanks in advance

TOY - Thinking Of You

TP - Teacher's Pet

TTBOMK - To the best of my knowledge 

TTFN - Ta Ta For Now

TTYL - Talk to You Later

VBG - Very Big Grin

WB - Welcome Back

YBS - You'll be Sorry


 

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 Neil Eskelin's Daily Jump Start

It’s possible to convince others to adopt a new position or change their attitude. Here are ten rules to follow:

1. Don’t place people on the defensive. If you tell them, “I’m going to change your mind, they’ll dig in their heels and challenge you, rather than agree.

2. Start and conclude with your strongest arguments.

3. Never insult your opponent. Even if you hint that your adversary is ignorant, or ill-informed, you create an enemy rather than a future partner.

4. Talk in terms of what the other person wants, not what you desire.

5. Thoroughly know your listeners opinions, beliefs and attitudes. Start from where ‘they’ are, not from your position.

6. Begin with what you have in common, not your differences.

7. Articulate both sides of the argument. Let people know you are knowledgeable of the opposing position.

8. Never lose your cool - or display your anger.

9. Stick with the facts. Don’t stretch the truth or embellish the details.

10. Ask for their agreement kindly and sincerely - but don’t fail to ask.

– Neil Eskelin

 

Neil Eskelin's Daily Jump Start

Retail sales are not only driven by customer demand, but by effective salespeople. Here are some guidelines to follow.

If someone were to ask you, “What are the four deadliest words in retail selling?” how would you respond? The answer to the question is: “May I help you?”

Why is that response so deadly? Studies show that in half or more of the time, a “No” answer will stop all further communication. And since sales often depends on establishing a relationship, you want to make sure you always get a positive answer.

The solution to the dilemma is to ask a potential customer an open-ended question that can’t be answered with a simple “Yes” or “No.” For example, you might say, “Are you looking for something for yourself - or for a friend?”

Your goal is to get people talking. Also remember this rule: Never ask a question that begins with “Is” or “Does” – the answer will always be a short “Yes” or “No.” Instead, let you questions begin with “How” or “Why” - and people will start communicating.

– Neil Eskelin

 

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This is from the country telling the rest of world who can't have weapons of mass destruction – Thanks Peter W

  Click on ~ http://nuclearweaponarchive.org/Usa/Tests/Dominic.html

 

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The folk cures that can only raise a smile! by Rosalind Ryan, femail.co.uk

 

Athough many traditional remedies do have some scientific basis, many are simply ridiculous. We take a look at some of the more bizarre folk cures that - thankfully - have now fallen out of favour.

 

A traditional remedy for burns was to slather the area in olive oil or butter. But rather than soothing the injury, this would only hold the heat inside the skin and effectively 'fry' the burn even further.

 

But one ancient cure that does work on burns is honey. Honey is a natural antiseptic and has been used for centuries as a wound dressing. It works because the high levels of sucrose - natural sugar - it contains prevent the growth of certain bacteria. The sucrose molecules 'trap' water, starving the bacteria of moisture that they need to survive. Honey also contains a form of hydrogen peroxide - a chemical that destroys oxgen molecules - which kills off bugs and prevents others from developing.

 

Rub the head with onion to cure baldness ~ Even before the invention of Grecian 2000, men have been worried about their receding hairlines and in ancient times - just as now - seemed prepared to try almost anything!

 

One method involved was rubbing the scalp morning and evening with an onion until it was red, followed by a further rubbing of honey. Worse still, according to Northamptonshire folklore, another cure for baldness was to rub pigeon droppings into the scalp!

 

Making a hair tonic using rosemary leaves was also believed to prevent premature baldness and stimulate new hair growth. Some poor men were even castrated as ancient doctors realised there was a connection between baldness and the male hormone testosterone.

 

Modern man will be relieved to hear that none of those cures work, but there is still no definitive cure for male baldness.

 

Put a bar of soap in bed to cure cramps. If you suffered from leg cramps during the night, many years ago the advice was to sleep with a bar of soap in the bed. If you woke with cramp, you were supposed to rub the soap over the area that was giving you pain.

 

Many people believed that the soap would help 'wash away' the pain of the cramp, though it's not surprising to know that modern scientists have poo-pooed this theory.

 

For a more up-to-date remedy, Dr John Briffa, our alternative health expert, recommends increasing your magnesium intake. Magnesium helps muscles function normally and without it, they can go into spasm causing cramp. You can find magnesium in green leafy vegetables, beans and pulses. Or you could take a 500mg magnesium supplement every day for up to three months.

 

Smoke a cigarette to cure a sore throat ~ During the First World War soldiers were encouraged to smoke to calm their nerves, but smoking has been credited with all manner of cures. If you were visiting a somebody who was ill, you were advised to smoke a cigarette to help the visitor ward off infections. It was also considered wise to smoke in the tropics to avoid illnesses such as malaria.

 

In the 1930s an advertisement for Craven 'A' cigarettes claimed they were specially developed to prevent sore throats. The posters showed a Humphrey Bogart look-a-like inhaling under the slogan 'I never have a throat all through winter - I take jolly good care to smoke only Craven A'.

 

We now know that smoking is responsible for many different types of cancer and other illnesses such as strokes, infertility and osteoporosis. Lung cancer caused by smoking is one of the most preventable fatal diseases in the UK today.

 

 

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